Well that’s it I give up. I really don’t know what the women are thinking. I’ve talked with them. I’ve studied them. I’ve asked them to study me. And I have to admit I am still at square one. Not that I really object to square one. It is the only numbered square in the game. At least you know your position. Nobody ever screws up and goes, 

“ Well, back to oval seven.” 

I believe we’re all secretly happy we can’t figure our relationship out. It keeps our minds working. I think we have to be grateful for the one thing in our lives that keeps us from being totally focused on eating.
 
 

Personal maintenance:

Let’s face it, the human body is like a condominium apartment. The thing that keeps you from really enjoying it is the maintenance. There’s a tremendous amount daily, weekly, monthly and yearly work that has to be done. From showering to open heart surgery, we’re always doing something to ourselves. If your body was a used car, you wouldn’t buy it. You’d go,

 “Nah, I’ve heard about these human being bodies. This is one of those Earth models, right? Yeah, a cousin of mine had one. Too much work to keep them going. The new ones are nice looking, though.”
 
 

The Thing is The Thing

Like it or not our things represent us. Most of the time, people’s things even look like them. Everyone is in the perfect clothes for them no matter what they are. To me everything you have is really a layer of clothing. Your body is your innermost and truest outfit. Your house is another layer of wardrobe. Then your neighbourhood, your city, your state. 

  It’s all one giant outfit.
  We’re wearing everything.

That’s why in certain towns, no matter what you’ve got on, you’ve a bad dresser. Just for being there. Some places you’re better off just moving instead of changing.

The Relationship

See, each man and each woman actually does have an owner’s manual. Nothing’s written down anywhere, but the directions for operation of an individual in a relationship are detailed and specific nonetheless. So when you start out with someone, you’re essentially driving a strange car for the first time and none of the controls are labelled. So the wipers can some on at strange tomes, sometimes you stall. On top of that we’ve all met people with bad steering, no brakes, needs a muffler, headlights a little dim, too much in the trunk, not enough under the hood, prone to backfiring, won’t turn over, and just plain out of gas. Which is why when people get ready to get married they so often seem to choose basic transportation. It’s simple, it’s reliable and it gets you there. That’s important on a long trip.

What is the problem, why is commitment is such a big problem for a man? I think that for some reason when a man is driving down that freeway of love, the woman he’s involved with is like an exit, but he doesn’t want to get off there. He wants to keep driving. And the woman is like, 
“ Look, gas, food, lodging, that’s our exit, that’s everything we need to be happy…………….Get off here, now!”

But the man is focusing on the sign underneath that says, “Next exit twenty-seven miles,” and he thinks, “I can make it.” Sometimes he can, sometimes he can’t. Sometimes the car ends up on the side of the road with the hood up and smoke pouring out of the engine. He’s sitting on the curb all alone, “I guess I didn't realize how many miles I was racking up.”
 

When we sleeps, our soul travels our future 

I think you were talking of some dejavu..!!   Its not the 'sleep' when our
soul travels the future.. its actually our subconscious mind. According to
psychoanalysts you have three layers of mind, the outside shell-layer is
our conscious mind.... we don't know what other two layers think all the
time... and we even don't know sometimes what power those could possess. May
compare that subconscious mind with what we know usually as "Third eye". It
can guess the future, and sometimes amazingly right!!! And about the
relation between our dreams and this subconscious mind I follow this
prevailing theory that ---- though you don't know what your subconscious
mind is thinking right now it always tries some hole to get through the
mind layers to come out in the conscious region.   And it sometimes
succeeds. WHEN?? yes you are right! that's in your dreams..... The things we
see in your dreams are all camouflage of our subconscious mind. That's why
if you start studying your own dreams very carefully there is a possibility
that you could unveil your future sometimes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

It doesn’t always have to be your dreams.... sometime when you just think of
your mom.... and then you get a phone from home.... these are also
examples... of travelling your soul to future when you are awake..... I
told you that our subconscious mind is always working on it what we are not
aware of.... its just the dreams when it can come out easily.......!! 

So............ I think you understood my logic and......... try to culture
your subconscious sometimes.

10 Steps for Boosting Creativity 
 

1. Always carry a small notebook and a pen or pencil around with you. That way, if you are struck by an idea, you can quickly note it down. Upon rereading your  notes, you may discover about 90% of your ideas are daft. Don' worry, that's normal. What's important are the 10% that are brilliant.

2. If you're stuck for an idea, open a dictionary, randomly select a word and then try to formulate ideas incorporating this word. You'd be surprised how well this works. The concept is based on a simple but little known truth:  freedom inhibits creativity. There are nothing like restrictions to get you thinking.

3. Define your problem. Grab a sheet of paper, electronic notebook, computer or whatever you use to make notes, and define your problem in detail. You'll probably find ideas positively spewing out once you've done this.

4. If you can't think, go for a walk. A change of atmosphere is good for you and gentle exercise helps shake up the brain cells.

5. Don't watch TV. Experiments performed by the JPB Creative Laboratory show that watching TV causes your brain to slowly trickle out your ears and/or nose. It's not pretty, but it happens.

6. Don't do drugs. People on drugs think they are creative. To everyone else, they seem like people on drugs.

7. Read as much as you can about everything possible. Books exercise your brain provide inspiration and fill you with information that allows you to make creative connections easily.

8. Exercise your brain. Brains, like bodies, need exercise to keep fit. If you don't exercise your brain, it will get flabby and useless. Exercise your brain b reading a lot (see above), talking to clever people and disagreeing with people

9.  Arguing can be a terrific way to give your brain cells  workout. But note arguing about politics or film directors is good for you; bickering over who should clean the dishes is not.
                                          Johann Sebastian Bach

Step by Step

1.Define your problem (please note that the word "problem" is not necessarily negative - your problem could be "We need a new product for the Christmas season" or "How can we effectively use our departmental budget surplus for this year?"). Write out your problem concisely and make sure that everyone understands the problem and is in agreement with the way it is worded. There is no need to put a lot of restrictions on your problem at this time.

2.Give yourselves a time limit - we recommend around 25 minutes, but experience will show how much time is required. Larger groups  may need more time to get everyone's ideas out.

3.Everyone must shout out solutions to the problem while one person writes them out or enters them into BrainStormer. There must be ABSOLUTELY NO CRITICIZING OF IDEAS. No matter how daft, how impossible or how silly an idea is, it must  written down. Laughing is to be encouraged. Criticism is not. Why? Because you want to encourage the free flow of ideas and as soon as participants of the brainstorming session begin to fear criticism of their ideas, they'll stop generating ideas. Moreover, Ideas that first seem silly may prove to be very good or may lead to ideas that are very good.

4.Once your time is up, select the five ideas which you like best. Make sure everyone involved in the brainstorming session is in agreement.

5.Write down about five criteria for judging which ideas best solve your problem. Criteria should start with the word "should", for example, "it should be cost effective", "it should be legal", "it should be possible to finish before July 15", etc.

6.Give each idea a score of 0 to 5 points depending on how well it meets each criterion. Once all of the ideas have been scored for each criterion, add up the scores.

7.The idea with the highest score will best solve your problem. But you should keep a record of all of your best ideas and their scores in case your best idea turns out not to be workable.